There’s often concern expressed at cuddle events – what if there’s too many guys? Many cuddle facilitators deal with this concern by doing what’s called “gender balancing.” Gender balance means making sure there’s an equal number of female-bodied and male-bodied people.
What I do instead is create a safe place where all genders can step away from who the culture says you’re allowed to or supposed to touch and step back into being like little kids. Kids who have less rules and less baggage. Kids who can follow their curiosity and follow their needs and learn by doing and experiencing rather than applying the rigid rules of the grown ups. Let us be children again.
I encourage you – if this feels uncertain or uncomfortable for you – to take a breath and consider joining me in this bold experiment. I’ve designed exercises to help us all feel safe and comfortable. Remember that there’s no required touch, you can always change your mind and of course leave the event if you want to. And there’s even a money back guarantee if you’re not happy with your experience!
Can you tell how passionately I feel about the subject?!
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If you’re curious about cuddle events, here’s a blog about it. And if you’d like to attend an event in Los Angeles, here’s the Cuddle Sanctuary group. Want to bring Cuddle Sanctuary to your city? Contact me at Jean@SexualEsteemWithJean.com.