Samantha had a big day at work. She’s back at her apartment, making dinner and feels a pang of loneliness. She pops open her laptop and finds that there are a few snuggle gatherings happening within walking distance.
Samantha knocks on a neighbor’s door and she’s welcomed into their living room. There are eight people already present – some are talking quietly, two are sitting on the couch holding hands, a few are giving and receiving shoulder massages. The vibe is safe, comfortable and healing.
Samantha is welcomed and within a few minutes she has received a well-deserved hug and a new friend is gently tickling her forearm – one of her favorite things since childhood. Thirty minutes later, Samantha feels relaxed and rejuvenated. She says a few grateful good-byes and heads home to bed.
What if everyone in American could have access to human warmth, touch and connection like Samantha in this story? A few months ago, I blogged about how hungry I felt for simple, caring touch and promised that I would find this holy grail I’d heard of called the Cuddle or Snuggle Party. I’ve found it, and it’s as good as I had dreamed. This month, I’m hosting my own. Below is the description. Does it sound as lovely to you as it does to me?
7:15-8:00PM Arrive, relax, chat, snack (No latecomers after 8pm; please be sure leave yourself lots-o-time for parking)
8:00-8:30PM Introductions and communication practice exercises
8:30-10:30PM Cuddling, hanging out, enjoying the flow
10:30-11:00PM Closing circle / clean up / good-byes
WHAT TO EXPECT?
This event may include snuggling, intimacy, pillow talk, communication and sensuality.
We will also have the option to give and receive massage, use sensual tools (feathers, brushes) and participate in pleasure.
The art of boundary setting and great communication will be practiced at this event.
WHAT TO WEAR?
Dress in clothes that are conducive to snuggling. Consider changing to comfy PJ’s when you arrive. Leave sharp belt buckles at home. Think soft fabrics and clothes that make you feel snuggly good.
WHAT TO BRING?
- Nesting materials – pillows, blankets, sleeping bags. Let’s have lots of soft and cozy options close to hand
– a healthy snack or drink to share
– an open heart, willing to give and receive
– a friend or loved one who has great communication skills and awesome vibes. – $5 cash to help cover incidentals
– Any sensual tools that you might like – feathers, silk fabric, a brush, massage tools, or special lotions or creams
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| People need to be touched. |