by Jean | Sep 17, 2013 | Blog
I borrowed a movie from a sexually sophisticated friend. The film, Bill and Desiree: Love is Timeless, was part of a documentary series that showed authentic couples having sex. In this case it was Bill and Desiree. Bill had a grey beard and looked like a college...
by Jean | Jul 22, 2013 | Blog
I’m involved with a Meetup group called Sex-Positive LA. The group describes itself as “people reclaiming sexuality as good, healthy and fun.” This Meetup is changing my life – it has become my classroom and playground. At the orientation, I met a new friend named...
by Jean | Jun 24, 2013 | Blog
A friend posted these drawings in his online profile. They stirred something deep within me – a longing, a knowing. I asked my friend to do something that I knew would be difficult – put into words why he chose these drawings. He fumbled through as best he could,...
by Jean | Jun 18, 2013 | Blog
It was supposed to be only a thirty-day thing, but it’s providing me with so many benefits, I’ve decided to extend it. My abstinence started several blog entries ago when I did the thing I often do – got together with someone I didn’t know well. Then I felt the thing...
by Jean | Jun 10, 2013 | Blog
Samantha had a big day at work. She’s back at her apartment, making dinner and feels a pang of loneliness. She pops open her laptop and finds that there are a few snuggle gatherings happening within walking distance.Samantha knocks on a neighbor’s door and she’s...
by Jean | May 30, 2013 | Blog
I learned something valuable today from Cosmo magazine of all places – very unlike me! They interviewed Tristan Taormino – a sex educator and feminist pornographer – and now I am enlightened. Tristan suggests that just as I may find it important to learn...
